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The Five Love Languages – Acts of Service


The Acts of service is a type of love language that focuses on showing your partner that you care about their happiness through the services you render. It can be best described as doing something for your partner that you know they would like, things such as filling up the gas, bathing for the children, cooking meal, doing the laundry etc. When you give Acts of service, you give up your time and energy. “


  1. Actions speaks louder than words
  2. Class Activities

Actions Speaks Louder than Voice

Jesus is a perfect example of someone who displayed Act of Service as love (John 13:3-17). He was a leader by example, and The husband to the Church by example. Jesus ask Peter a very important question, a question that matter in every relationship. He said “Do you Love me more than anything”, peter replied affirmatively “Jesus, I love very much, more than anything in the world”. Jesus smiled and “said show me” (John 21:15-17). This is what many spouses are crying for, many friends are lacking this, many Christians confesses him as lord and savior but he said “if you love me then show me by your action” (John 14:15).

Class Activities

  1. Juxtapose the act of service of Jesus Christ, the Old Christians and the Christians of today?
  2. Juxtapose the act of service in Older Marriages to Newlyweds (Marriages Under 10years)
  3. What can be identified about act of service in the following verses?

Whoever wants to become great among you must serve the rest of you like a servant (Matthew 20:26).

I was hungry and you gave me food. I was thirsty, and you gave me something to drink… I was without clothes and you gave me something to wear… I tell you the truth, anything you did for even the least of my people here, you also did for me (Matthew 25:35, 36, 40).

Anyone who has the gift of serving should serve (Romans 12:7).

When we have the opportunity to help anyone, we should do it (Galatians 6:10).

Each of you has received a gift to use to serve others. + !! Note the examples of people who served others (I Peter 4:10).

I ask you to accept her [Phoebe] in the Lord in the way Godʼs people should. Help her with anything she needs, because she has helped me and many other people also (Romans 16:2).

I thank God for the help you gave me. (Philippians 1:5)

You know the kind of person Timothy is. You know he has served with me (Philippians 2:22).

Anyone who serves should serve with the strength God gives so that in everything God will be praised through Jesus Christ (I Peter 4:11).

My children, we should love people not only with words and talk, but by our actions and true caring (I John 3:18).


Whatever may be your task, work at it heartily (from the soul), as [something done] for the Lord and not for men, Knowing [with all certainty] that it is from the Lord [and not from men] that you will receive the inheritance which is your [real] reward. [The One Whom] you are actually serving [is] the Lord Christ (the Messiah). (Colossians 3:23-24)

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